Individual Counseling Services I Offer
Everyone needs someone to talk to sometime in their life; someone who is unbiased and a good listener. Someone who is non-judgmental and is ready to help you with life decisions and give you support. Individual counseling can help you develop coping skills to deal with feelings like anger and depression.
Individual counseling, sometimes called talk therapy or psychotherapy, can help you to figure out problems in your life. From self-esteem issues, to anxiety and stress, depression, or stress management, individual therapy can help you to live a more full life.
I can help you with your life issues.
Services I Offer Individuals
Cope with unwanted feelings
Anxiety, stress, anger, these are all natural human feelings. But sometimes they can get too much for us to handle. Besides talk therapy, there are skills you can use to help cope with these feelings. These coping skills can be useful for a variety of situations. They will not remove these intrusive feelings, but they will make it possible for you to manage them better.
- Deep breathing
- Muscle relaxation
- Meditation and creative visualization
- Cognitive Resonance
Give these skills a chance. Some may work for you, some may not. But give them chance before you dismiss them. Every skill needs practice to improve and become effective. Do not be afraid to fail a few times before you get it right. But give yourself a chance to get them right!
Have you ever made a New Year’s resolution? That is a promise you have made to change your behavior. Unfortunately, we usually forget or set aside these resolutions. Changing our behavior or habits is one of the hardest and scariest things we can do. It moves us from our comfort zone into uncomfortable areas. But we can make those changes. We are not going to pick a behavior and change it. It generally takes at least two months to change a surface behavior, longer for ingrained habits. But by making a plan and sticking to it, we can help you make a change in your life.
Reasons it is hard to change behavior or habits:
- our source of motivation
- taking on too much at once
- not allowing room for mistakes
- we set ourselves up for failure
- we forget to use what we already know
Let me help you make the changes you want to see.
Changing jobs can be a daunting and difficult time. There can be fear, uncertainty, and even doubt. Financial issues loom, interviewing, resume writing, Career counseling can be for anyone, from high schoolers to seniors looking for something to fill their time. Career counseling is not just finding a job though. It is discovering the knowledge and skills you possess to determine your future.
Career counseling can:
- help you find the best job for you
- show you how to use your education and skills to their utmost potential
- help you organize your life to find the right job
- show you resources to help with finding a job, resume writing and interviewing
- help you explore your career options
- determine the steps and goals needed to reach your job
Sometimes we just need help discovering where we are and where we are going. An unbiased voice can occasionally give us a new perspective and help us make our decisions. It can also help us work out issues we have. This new perspective can show us things we had not thought of before.
Our brains will often impart information to us in ways we least expect and cannot always understand. Our resting brain can send us information in the form of dreams. Sometimes dreams are merely the brain’s way of showing our flights of fancy. Other times, they are our attempt at trying to resolve problems we could not or will not in our waking time. By analyzing our dreams we can try to figure out what our subconscious is telling us and work out problems or issues we may have hidden from ourselves.
Paul Gross, LPC, MFTC
411 Lakewood Circle Drive
Colorado Springs, CO 80910